Happy 75th Daddy!

The Original John Wayne with this Hockey Stick

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Today is a milestone birthday for my father-in-law. He turned 75! We ushered in this momentous day by throwing him a surprise party over the weekend. Over two weeks of preparations and loads of excuses, all diverting his attention, we managed to pull this one off. Needless to say his expressions were priceless. Let me introduce you to the man I have come to call and love asย Daddy.

Baptized asย Joseph, he is the epitome of everything a man should be. Going acrostically, here is the list of things that makeย Joeย as he is fondly called.

J stands for beingย Just.ย He believes in being equal at all times, whatever the situation might be. Hence on every birthday, either mine or my husbandโ€™s and our anniversary, our daughter gets a gift without fail.

O because he is soย Organized.ย 11 years back, my husband casually mentioned to him he was contemplating marriage and within half an hour, the venue, the caterer, the photographer and the compere were booked. Poor husband could not manage to wriggle out of that one and is still suffering.

S is for theย Simpletonย that he is at heart. He actually bought the story that his son won an award for excellence and hence he was invited to see him receive the same. In reality, the most excellent thing his son has ever done is marry me!ย He also believed that we were working on the arrangements for the lunch on Sunday which was not happening. All in all, he really has a pure heart for devils like us, whose horns arenโ€™t there just for the decoration.

E is to state howย Economicalย he isโ€“ Believe it or not, he convinced Mom to marry him by throwing peanuts at her, practically every day whilst she went to college. Mom said yes, she thought at least she would get to eat the peanuts.ย  Imagine, raising an entire Clan of three sons and 5 grandchildren on the foundation of Peanuts. Sheer Genius!

P is for all theย Positivityย he brings about โ€“ Dad always emits positive vibration, especially when he goes to the fish market! The fisher folk up the price by 200 when they see him; he brings down the price by Rs 50. Both are happy, sheer win-win situation.

H is for theย Holisticย approach he has towards life. He believes in the body, mind and soul being thoroughly nourished. For the soul, he goes to church regularly, for peace of mind he has periodic health checkups and for the body he has a regular supply of chocolate. In fact he let out his secret the other day, his young; wrinkle free skin is because of a daily dose chocolates and ice creams, as proven by some scientific research in Utah! So all those of you who think Botox might be the answer to all your gravitational issues, think Cadburys, Kit Kats, snickers and Mars to be precise.

As a daughter, my dad was always the No 1 man in my life. I am truly blessed to have found a father in Daddy as well. If every daughter were to get in laws like mine, I think there would be no gender bias to begin with.

Daddy on your 75thย birthday, I wish you all the peace and joy that you deserve. More than we can give, we have received from you. Someday, we hope to be the kind of parents that we’ve been lucky to have. Like I always say, anyone can be a fatherโ€ฆโ€ฆ.it takes someone special to be a Daddy. Love you, always.

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34 responses to “Happy 75th Daddy!”

  1. nivs avatar
    nivs

    Loved loved this one ๐Ÿ˜‰ one of ur finest writings .. Love the words and moreso the emotions embedded within …

  2. Blogwati Gee avatar

    Nivs what do I say except that he is completely worth it ๐Ÿ™‚

  3. Blogwati Gee avatar

    Dear Anonymous………it was him all the way…actually ๐Ÿ˜€

  4. Anonymous avatar
    Anonymous

    Really nice…….nice use Of words and Vocabulary……I know Julian must have helped u with these nice and heavy English words and u r taking the Credit.

  5. Ugich Konitari avatar

    Happy Birthday , Blogwatiji’s Daddyji ! Loved reading about you !

  6. Anonymous avatar
    Anonymous

    Lovely post Vini, beautifully written. Belated bday wishes to your daddy. Love Meena

  7. akita avatar

    super duper !!!!!!!!!! where is the cake ……i want cake …..

  8. mridulachitnis avatar

    Fantabulous one. And Utah is a real place….I googled just now and planning to start anew with diet, this time a happy one.

  9. mridulachitnis avatar

    And what do I wish uncle, greatness and simplicity need people around who know its value so just touchwood.

  10. Carina Fernandes Panchal avatar

    Happy Birthday Uncle Joe!
    Vini you are a genius and you never cease to amaze me!

  11. jaish_vats avatar

    Kudos to u for writing such a sweet post for ur dad-in-law . The fact that u have written this itself is proof enough for the man he is . ๐Ÿ™‚ God bless ur family . Btw u have triggered cravings for chocolate in me ๐Ÿ™‚

  12. C. Suresh avatar

    Going by your description of yr family (horns not for decoration and all!), it looks like cos he threw peanuts he begot monkeys ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚

    Could not resist that! Great write-up.

  13. Corinne Rodrigues avatar
    Corinne Rodrigues

    An absolute masterpiece, Vinita. I read the whole thing out to my husband (he can read – but just that I got to read out and laugh again!).
    I hope you got Dad to read this – would love to know how he reacted.

  14. Raj Mudaliar avatar

    What a fabulous innings! Absolutely fascinating insights of the man that Mr. Joseph is!

    My sincere salutations to you Sir for a life well lived. You remind me of the scripture verse which states that: “He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that brings forth its fruit in its season, whose leaf also shall not wither and whatever he does shall prosper.” – Psalm 1:3

  15. Blogwati Gee avatar

    Ugich Konitari, I loved writing about him ๐Ÿ™‚

  16. Blogwati Gee avatar

    Thanks a ton Meena ๐Ÿ™‚

  17. Blogwati Gee avatar

    Akita, Ramadan time……you can’t have cake ๐Ÿ˜›

  18. Blogwati Gee avatar

    Mrids, I am glad this diet is gonna help….I know it will ๐Ÿ˜€

  19. Blogwati Gee avatar

    Carina, I’ve got wiiiiiiiiiings ๐Ÿ˜›

  20. Blogwati Gee avatar

    Jaish, yes I am blessed ๐Ÿ™‚ Chocolate….any time ๐Ÿ˜€

  21. Blogwati Gee avatar

    C. Suresh… monkeys have horns??? lol!

  22. Blogwati Gee avatar

    Corinne, this was my toast to the man I so love ๐Ÿ™‚

  23. Blogwati Gee avatar

    Raj, thank you for your kind words and blessings.

  24. Blogwati Gee avatar

    Thanks so much Ranita…..will do ๐Ÿ™‚

  25. Ranita Sinha avatar

    Such a lovely post..nothing can be more beautiful than this..Wish ur Daddy a belated Happy Birthday..

  26. Ritu Lalit avatar

    Written straight from the heart. Lovely post. Happy birthday BlogwatiG’s Daddy

  27. Ruch avatar

    very heartfelt ! And he seems like the Daddy everybody would want ! Happy Birthday to him ๐Ÿ˜›

  28. Roshni avatar

    “In reality, the most excellent thing his son has ever done is marry me!” LOL!!

    1. blogwatig avatar

      But is is a fact! And you agree, don’t you? ๐Ÿ˜‰

  29. Dana avatar

    Happy birthday to your dad! I bet reading this was a wonderful present for him.

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Oh yes, partly because it was the toast I raised to him on D Day.

  30. Lillian Connelly avatar

    It sounds like you have a lot of love in your nice. It’s refreshing to read something so positive about in-laws!

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Oh I totally, totally lucked out Lillian. My in laws are amazing and I mean this from the bottom of my heart.

  31. vishalbheeroo avatar

    Happy birthday to ur father-in-law. He is an awesome man and forever young at heart:)

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