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P pressurizes PARENTS
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35 responses to “P pressurizes PARENTS”
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A very wise dad – so right, our children emulate everything we do. Loved your post.
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Yup, he was the best ever Suzy 🙂
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Precisely! – I cannot agree more with you Gee – Very well put! No matter what we preach, our kids only learn from what they see us doing.
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We were fortunate to be taught well, Laxmi. I guess we have a lot to be grateful for.
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A very nice post. Indeed kids emulate their parents and learn from their actions far more than their words.
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Totally. So then why do we complain?
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Wonderful post Vini…and I so love your dad.
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I <3 him too. Forever and Ever 🙂
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There’s way too much pressure on parents today from their children and other parents. I see loads of children on FB which has an above 18 policy (if I’m not wrong). Are we encouraging children to lie about their age to be with it? I’m glad when parents talk about these issues – because if I do, I’m told, what do you know, you have no kids!
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Corinne, not every one can face the mirror and like what they see. Kids on FB…..don’t even get me started on it……hmmmmmmppppf
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True BG,we do end up emulating our parents.My father still tells me stories when he has to drive home a point.My kids are more than amused to see me lap up those stories eagerly.Touched a chord somewhere..your narration.Beautiful and warm as always.
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I know what you mean. Treasure it Sharmila…….
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You are bang on B. Our parents are our first role models, we learn the most from them, so setting the right example is so very important for parents and doing so in today’s times is indeed tough. Wonderful examples to learn from.
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Shilpa, if we only concentrate on our footsteps rather than someone else’s path, we should do ok, me thinks.
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Being an example beats any other form of lesson. Wonderful post.
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Thanks Shail. And we are an example, whether we like it or not. So might as well be a good one.
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Lovely post, children learn more by observing their parents than they let on.
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And these are deep rooted ideologies, CW. We could make them or break them.
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My parents are a lot like yours .. We were taught more by examples than by words and so the lessons have stayed with us for life !
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I think all of us were lucky that way. The ‘call centre’ generation are the ones who ruined it.
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Good one !
true that . Not sure if I will be a good example for my kids in future
its already scary 🙁
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You can always hope Afshan. The key is introspection and instinct. Keep both of them close.
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Absolutely! I hear so many parents who complain that their kids are always playing video games…um, why are you letting them?!
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EXACTLY Roshni! I think parents need parenting now toh..
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Vinita, I was touched to read your post. It explains so beautifully why parents are considered a child’s first teachers. Our parents had such few resources, compared to us, and yet they raised us so well. I hope we can raise our children to understand the value of things that cannot be bought.
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Cynthia, you have no clue how happy this comment is making me. At times I thought I was the twisted one to think like that. I am so glad this post resonated with so many.
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What more can I say, loved your post, every single word of it. Parenting seems to be so hard, yet in that journey, we inch closer to perfection, if only to set an example for our children.
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Thanks Bhav. I am glad it struck a chord.
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BlogwatiG, am lucky to having been in this technology world and get to read and imbibe words of wisdom through wonderful bloggers like You! 🙂
Yes, I agree with all that you’ve written here, but somewhere feel, the developing and competing world has put an end to the real parenthood and quite a few parents have forgotten or have changed themselves to match their peers and turned modern. Western culture being accepted widely by Indians has also been one reason to overlook the old teachings/culture. More concentration on spending time to earn money and indulge in technology deeply is the key point of parent (Read: rat) race these days. Hats off to parents like you! 🙂
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Culture, if right aspects are adopted, can be very enriching. What we need to get out of is the rat race as you rightly pointed 🙂
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Thank you Vinita for the post. I am lucky to have parents like yours. My mom used to tell me several stories and now i understand their meanings.
Loved your post to the core.
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lovely post vinita; struck a chord gal-nice
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This was a great post on Parenting. We have a lot to face with our kids regards to peer pressure, FB, latest gadgets etc. I’m lucky to have very good parents who have worked hard to provide us the best and we’ve never been demanding. We were happy with whatever we had.
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This is one of those soul posts that sends a warm feeling flowing right through your heart 🙂 loved the wisdom it offered and I can only hope our kids say the same thing about us 🙂
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Very nice post Vinita. Loved the story and the quotes your father passed on to you.
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