Best Foot Forward

Myย Wandering Wednesdayย Series are dedicated to the flight of my imagination now and then, captured by my camera lens. And then, songs and movies simply fill in the gaps for the right captions! I try to give you the back story of the picture too. Perhaps you may see a tale hidden there. Check the previous postsย here.

โ€œLet there be spaces in your togetherness, and let the winds of the heavens dance between you,” Khalil Gibran said of marriage, in his book, The Prophet. But I think it stands true for any relationship. Each one, as an equal, brings to the table their weaknesses and strengths. And that is what makes up a unique equation, one that the two people involved, understand the value of. ย They celebrate being different. They might share a vision, not necessarily the path. They talk, they laugh, they share, and they also argue. A healthy friendship is not the absence of debate, it is the presence of gratitude in spite of a difference of opinion. Inadequacy of thoughts, words and deeds have no room when you see eye to eye. When you find someone like this, hold on!

This picture was clicked last week on Independence Day at Juhu Beach. My bestie and I, along with many other parents, were there to cheer our kids for the mini marathon. The breezy Mumbai seaside and we couldn’t resist being kids ourselves. Splish, splash, splosh we went, to the delight of the child in us. We are mad when we are together. On most days, we do lead separate lives. We hardly meet, but talk often. We don’t do the family and friends jig either. We have our own space and we prefer it that way. More often than not, we hang out in a group, yet manage to stand out. What connects us is the wavelength. She is gorgeous, I am sexy, and together, we kick ass! Be scared. Be very scared.
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  1. janu avatar
    janu

    I agree….about that scared part. ๐Ÿ˜€

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Yup, you would now, wouldn’t you ๐Ÿ˜›

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Thanks Ritu ๐Ÿ™‚ Me thinks so too!

  2. Hrishi avatar

    aah, yellow nail paint..

    1. blogwatig avatar

      What is with you and nail paint, child?

  3. Manpreet avatar
    Manpreet

    Love it ๐Ÿ™‚ to besties … today and tomorrow!!

  4. Ruch avatar

    Petrified I am ๐Ÿ™‚
    Good friendships are rare and should be valued more than anything me feels !

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Totally Ruch…..happy are those who know the gems that need to be retained. ๐Ÿ™‚

  5. Rainbow Hues avatar

    Very beautifully said. Good friendships are often rare and when they come by, they must not be allowed to let go. Happy picture!

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Totally agree Kajal. And I guess we are very lucky ๐Ÿ™‚

  6. Rachna avatar

    Ah so agree on your take on friendship or for that matter any relationship. When there is a lack of space and even mutual respect, the relationship starts becoming stifling and flounders. It is indeed good to find good friends. As decades go by, you don’t even think before reaching out to them. They sort of become an extension to your own personality. Hey, and I am so getting yellow nail paint at my next pedicure. I just love it!

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Friends truly are an extension of our personality. I couldn’t have put it better Rachna.

      And I need a picture of those yellow nails ๐Ÿ™‚

      1. Rachna avatar

        It seems yellow nail paint had gotten over so I had to make do with parrot green :).

        1. blogwatig avatar

          Ah, good enough………….pictures, please!

  7. Alka avatar

    The moms had fun. The picture says it all. Lovely.

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Oh yes, we sure did Alka.

  8. Roshni avatar

    That’s a killer big toe nail, oy!! ๐Ÿ˜€

    1. blogwatig avatar

      I always said, size does matter, Rosh ๐Ÿ˜›

  9. Disha avatar

    I really loved those lines “let the winds of the heavens dance between you,”!!! Nice post ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Ah, Khalil Gibran was a rockstar!

  10. Pratibha avatar

    Yellow yellow dirty fellow!
    She is gorgeous, I am sexy, and together, we kick ass! Be scared. Be very scared.

    Wah! loved that!

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Oh that is our statutory warning….lol! You’ve got to meet us together to know what I mean ๐Ÿ˜‰

  11. Afshan avatar
    Afshan

    These lines hit me right there blogwati g – A healthy friendship is not the absence of debate, it is the presence of gratitude in spite of a difference of opinion

    And loved ur post. Its always good to hold on to those “Special” lot
    <3

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Yes, Afshan, that is true of one and all relationships. Thanks for picking the essence.

  12. Swapna Thomas avatar

    Love the yellow nail paint! And I long to go splish splash in a beach soon! Love your energy Vinita!

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Oh yeah, I do too. Thanks Swapna, crazy is the only way I know to be ๐Ÿ˜€

  13. Saru Singhal avatar

    Isn’t friendship divine? It’s also free from all liabilities, you can be whatever you want and it still stands there, rock solid. Last part of the post is true ๐Ÿ˜‰ Sexy part is a fact ๐Ÿ˜‰

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Ah, you’d know, wouldn’t you Saru? ๐Ÿ˜‰

      Yes, friendship can never be bound in shackles of any kind.

  14. Diwakar Narayan avatar

    This post inspired me to say that I love to see my feet under water, not on sand ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Ah, we took loads of those too……I had a hard time zeroing down on one that I wanted to feature. ๐Ÿ™‚

      And yes, underwater wins………….hands down! ๐Ÿ˜€ We had a super time!

  15. Aditi avatar

    Lovely post! …it is the presence of gratitude in spite of a difference of opinion… Beautifully said, true for every relationship!
    Love the pic too…beaches are my fav! ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. blogwatig avatar

      Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚ Oh yes, the sea holds my thoughts and then sets them free ๐Ÿ™‚

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